Let’s talk about you (Mr Siili) and me.
Yup, that’s right, it had been 7 months and one week* since Mr Siili and I had last had sex. And seeing that Paxlet is 5 months old today, we didn’t have sex the last 2 months of pregnancy either. (Not that I didn’t try, but it just didn’t work and was frankly too much effort on both our parts.)
I have to admit, it was all Mr Siili’s doing. While sex had crossed my mind at times recently, it didn’t do much more than that. My sex hormones just don’t seem up to it on their own yet. I sure hope that will change at some point. (When I’m done breast feeding?)
Sheesh, that’s a loooong time to go without spending intimate quality time with my husband. I never imagined our
lack of a sex life would take that path. Even during our lowest of lows while TTC and IF treatments it never went that long in between times that we had sex. (Heck, not even when we were on different continents.) I hope that doesn’t happen again. But then again, we’ve never dealt with pregnancy or a baby before this either. We’ll have to make sure we don’t go this long without sex again.
* Yes, I mark in my day planner when I have sex. I have always done it. Just like I have always marked when my periods start.